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Psychotherapy for Successful Who Are
Carrying More Than They Show

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Outwardly, your life may look strong, stable, and accomplished. You’ve built a career, created a home, maintained a relationship, and learned how to function at a high level. Others see confidence, competence, and success.

Privately, it may feel very different.

You may be living with chronic anxiety that never fully quiets. You may feel emotionally tired, relationally disconnected, sexually frustrated, or increasingly burned out by the pressure to keep performing. You may be in an open relationship that once felt workable but now feels strained, confusing, or quietly painful. You may look fine on the outside while carrying far more than anyone knows.

If that sounds familiar, therapy can help.

You do not need to keep carrying it alone. Many people who contact me say some version of: ​“From the outside, things look good. But inside, something isn’t working.”​ That recognition is often the beginning of real change.​ If you’d like to explore working together, I welcome you to reach out for a complimentary consultation. Please call or text for an appointment.

About Me

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I provide private-pay psychotherapy for gay men, gay male couples, and other high-achieving adults who want more than surface-level coping strategies. My clients are often intelligent, self-aware, and successful in many areas of life — yet privately struggling with stress, shame, relationship conflict, betrayal, loneliness, or the emotional cost of holding everything together.​​ Many have tried to think their way out of pain. Many are exhausted by that approach.​​ Therapy offers a different path: one rooted in clarity, honesty, emotional depth, and meaningful change.

Clients often tell me they appreciate that I am warm, direct, engaged, and grounded. I bring humor when helpful, compassion always, and a thoughtful level of challenge when growth requires it. ​​I understand that many successful people fear therapy will be vague, passive, or superficial; my approach is none of those things.​​ This is a place to speak honestly, be understood deeply, and begin changing what no longer works.

Expertise

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High-Functioning Anxiety

You manage work, responsibilities, and appearances — while internally feeling restless, overextended, self-critical, or unable to relax.

Burnout in Successful Professionals

Achievement can become a survival strategy. Eventually, even success stops feeling rewarding.

Identity, Shame &
Self-Worth

Internalized homophobia, perfectionism, body-image concerns, aging, loneliness, and the pressure to always appear fine.

Couples Therapy

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Open Relationships: Conflict, Betrayal & Repair

What once felt clear may now feel emotionally complicated. Boundaries may have blurred. Trust may have fractured. Agreements need to be clarified. You may not know how to move forward together.

Communication, Intimacy & Reconciliation

Many couples wait too long to seek help. By the time they reach therapy, resentment has hardened, trust has been damaged, or both partners feel lonely in the same room.

You do not need to be in crisis to begin.

Couples therapy can help you:

  • Repair trust after betrayal or secrecy

  • Improve communication without endless circular fights

  • Rebuild intimacy and emotional safety

  • Understand whether to repair or part respectfully

  • Communication shutdown, resentment, mismatched desire, emotional distance, unresolved conflict, or deciding whether the relationship can be repaired

My Fees

Private Pay & Insurance Reimbursement 

My fee is $300 per session. I maintain a private-pay practice and do not bill insurance companies directly. However, I provide a monthly receipt of services (or "superbill") that you may submit to your insurance carrier for potential out-of-network reimbursement. I will work with you to navigate this process.

In-Person & TELEHEALTH Throughout California

Therapy sessions are available in person in my Los Angeles office and via secure TELEHEALTH for clients anywhere in California.

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Location & Parking

7257 Beverly Blvd

Suite 108  

Los Angeles, CA 90046

Parking can be found on residential side streets for 2 hours, until 6 pm or metered parking on Beverly is $1.50/hr (coins, credit card, parking apps indicated on meter) 

 Contact

Please call or text 

323 656 3337

for a complimentary phone consultation

Forms

Before our first session new clients should download the two forms below and email them to me at: scottseomin@gmail.com. You may also bring hard copies with you for that first session.

Scott Seomin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist MFC 90578

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